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Hub You - Managing Your Team (Part 5) - Who's Guilty of Plopping?
Be a Bartender in Las Vegas e inputs you've made.If you are already a bartender than you read this title and you understand exactly why one would want to be a Bartender in Las Vegas. If not, read some of the classified from Las Vegas and you will quickly understand why.Bartenders in Las Vegas can make a six figure salary plus their tips if they have the proper experience and skills. Even a bottom dollar bartender can make over $75,000 a year in Las Vegas as a bartender. This is a lot of money considering a bartender in Indianapolis, Indiana will probably be lucky to make $40,000 a year.You need certain s You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team Unfortunately, all of us may be guilty of this behaviour from time to time and often this attitude and behaviour will be accompanied with... "C'mon, I was only joking! Don't be so sensitive" One of the main root causes of this behaviour, as I have touched on previously is based on our value system. We live, breath, and act our own values - they are who we are and, therefore, are extremely important to each of us whether we are fully aware of them or not. In context, think of some practical examples... You've guessed it, not surprisingly, these are values that are very important to me in both my personal and business lives. Yours may be the same or totally different. To illustrate the point... Punctuality is extremely important to you, it is one of your primary values. So, how do you feel when team members regularly turn up late to your meetings? How do those who turn up on time feel when you wait until everyone has arrived before you start the meeting? What message are you sending out? NOW, let's say you have just given your views, made a suggestion to the group and it is completely ignored. How do you feel? Who's guilty of plopping - you are - you've just plopped! Everyone else continues with the group discussion which bears no relevance to the inputs you've made. You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team One of the main root causes of this behaviour, as I have touched on previously is based on our value system. We live, breath, and act our own values - they are who we are and, therefore, are extremely important to each of us whether we are fully aware of them or not. In context, think of some practical examples... You've guessed it, not surprisingly, these are values that are very important to me in both my personal and business lives. Yours may be the same or totally different. To illustrate the point... Punctuality is extremely important to you, it is one of your primary values. So, how do you feel when team members regularly turn up late to your meetings? How do those who turn up on time feel when you wait until everyone has arrived before you start the meeting? What message are you sending out? NOW, let's say you have just given your views, made a suggestion to the group and it is completely ignored. How do you feel? Who's guilty of plopping - you are - you've just plopped! Everyone else continues with the group discussion which bears no relevance to the inputs you've made. You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team You've guessed it, not surprisingly, these are values that are very important to me in both my personal and business lives. Yours may be the same or totally different. To illustrate the point... Punctuality is extremely important to you, it is one of your primary values. So, how do you feel when team members regularly turn up late to your meetings? How do those who turn up on time feel when you wait until everyone has arrived before you start the meeting? What message are you sending out? NOW, let's say you have just given your views, made a suggestion to the group and it is completely ignored. How do you feel? Who's guilty of plopping - you are - you've just plopped! Everyone else continues with the group discussion which bears no relevance to the inputs you've made. You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team NOW, let's say you have just given your views, made a suggestion to the group and it is completely ignored. How do you feel? Who's guilty of plopping - you are - you've just plopped! Everyone else continues with the group discussion which bears no relevance to the inputs you've made. You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team You're left sitting there (or worse standing there) wondering what the heck has just happened. O.K. in the overall scheme of things it will happen to all of us at some time and by understanding that fact, we won't get things out of perspective or over-react. However, we do need to focus on the challenge or issue when a team member is ignored or under-valued repeatedly by the rest of the team or one individual frequently under-values other team members You could argue that the title of this article should be... Who's Guilty of Making Me Plop?" Just maybe... So, one theme you'll find in a number of these articles is our duty of care to our fellow team members. It is encumbent on all of us to guide our team colleagues, respect their contributions, seek clarification if necessary - don't discount it or them, and where appropriate, provide constructive feedback to those who are consciously or unconsciously undervaluing other team members. And, what can I do as team leader? "Before we move on, I think what Joe said is worth consideration so let's spend some more time discussing it"
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