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5) Not Following-Thru
Actions do speak louder than words. Be reliable and trustworthy. When you commit yourself to doing something, do it. This builds the trust necessary to maintain a close relationship. Trust involves everyday things, not just fidelity.

6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't

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When thinking about my patients, I've noticed a pattern to the marital conflicts that they share. Here's my list of the top ten things that put your marriage at higher risk for break-up and the things you must do to strengthen it.

1) Putting-Down Spouse's Friends/Family
Don't badmouth your spouse or her/his friends, family or associates. Spouses need to know you appreciate their world outside of you. Rather, compliment her friends and family.

2) Not Using Good Listening Skills
This includes indulging pre-occupation, avoiding eye contact, looking somewhere else as the conversation unfolds etc. Rather, use good eye contact, wait 'til your spouse finishes talking and concentrate so much on what s/he is saying that you paraphrase it to demonstrate you REALLY listened.

3) Lack of Sexual Interplay
This is a very ominous sign in marriage. If your partner has complaints that prevent him/her from wanting to engage you sexually, get help. Seek medical and/or psychological counseling, if necessary. Men, don't get hung-up on wanting SEX-SEXUAL INTERCOURSE all the time. Be able to frequently engage your partner slowly and tenderly in a SENSUAL fashion without SEX. Don't worry, your penis won't explode because of pent-up semen. Don't leave your partner clueless as to why you aren't interested in sex.

4) Always Having the Last Word or Need to be Right
This includes lecturing, criticizing and over-correcting your partner. Narcissists are HARD to love! Occasionally, admit that you made a mistake, don't know or compliment your partner as having made a "good point" (and leave it at that). Please be concise. Don't answer every question with a lecture on the topic.

6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't

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Want to know the REAL reason women are turned-off by men? The answer might surprise you.You’re probably thinking it has to do with your haircut, the pleats in your pants, or your bank account. In fact, it usually has NOTHING to do with these things.I remember being blown off by a girl in college. I had asked her out, and she gave me the classic, “Let me call you b

compliment her friends and family.

6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't

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Much of what happens around us is beyond our control. We cannot predict the future, but all we can do is to prepare for it. Over the past few years, many calamities have happened. These calamities cost millions of dollars in destruction. Many buildings were crashed, many houses were burned, many schools were destroyed, many hospitals were ruined and many people died.Abou

very ominous sign in marriage. If your partner has complaints that prevent him/her from wanting to engage you sexually, get help. Seek medical and/or psychological counseling, if necessary. Men, don't get hung-up on wanting SEX-SEXUAL INTERCOURSE all the time. Be able to frequently engage your partner slowly and tenderly in a SENSUAL fashion without SEX. Don't worry, your penis won't explode because of pent-up semen. Don't leave your partner clueless as to why you aren't interested in sex.

6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't

Venture Capitalists Think Every Thing is For Sale
It is truly amazing when you are the Founder of a Company how many times you are approached by Venture Capitalists who have funded your competition and wish to buy your company. They wish to use such an acquisition to grow their market share without earning it. Indeed such a strategy is worthy of mention and yet these Venture Capitalists are often arrogant and assume everything

n. Don't leave your partner clueless as to why you aren't interested in sex.

6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't

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The Challenge: In any game, there must be the element of difficulty. No one likes to lose, but if there isn’t that chance, there is no point to winning. And, the greater the risk of loss, the more poignant a hard-earned victory becomes. Role playing games are no different. Although many of these games are not strictly competitive between players, the characters almos

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6) Inconsiderate Teasing
Believe your spouse if s/he says that your teasing was hurtful or a put down. Don't give a lecture about why that wasn't correct. Just stop it. Ask yourself what s/he would find complimentary and say that instead. If you just LISTEN to your spouse you can learn alot.

7) Deceit, Lies and Falsehoods
Having lies and secrets creates distance and serious suspicions in your mate. This leads to lack of trust and robs your relationship of the fuel it needs to keep going. Swallow, bite the bullet, be considerate and be honest.

8) Being Juvenile
When you know you are annoying and you continue to annoy, it's immature and VERY wearing on a spouse. Find better ways to get attention and use healthy communication techniques to communicate your gripes.

9) Explosive Anger
You must handle conflict constructively EVEN if your spouse doesn't. Having angry outbursts always makes you the loser, even if you ARE right. That's called being "self-defeating."

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