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Hub You - How A Phony Persona Always Hurts You
We have all had great service before at the grocery store, where a clerk helped us immensely and we unfortunately have all had poor service as well, where we could not even find anyone to help us and when we finally did, they were no help at all. Do I dare state the obvious about customer service at grocery stores? It starts in the parking lot!That’s right great service at grocery stores starts in the parking lot. The landscaping, trash control and those shopping carts must be put in the proper place an
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it
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You may ask, what’s adding a little sizzle hurt any?
It’s not the extra energy that you bring to the table as long as it’s your true personality. It is the egregious transformation from you knowing who you are, to a personality that you may or may not realize is fraudulent.
Whether you call it fake, phony, fraudulent, multiple personalities or whatever, it pretty much adds up to the same thing. It is not who you are. I know, I, not unlike millions of others, had taken on the ‘Mr. Hollywood’ whenever a situation called for it and my color changed like a chameleon to suit my environment.
Adolescents are always trying to one up each other in order to cement themselves into an ever-changing social structure. You may see it at the mall when a pack of thirteen year old girls float through an area you are shopping and their volume is much more accentuated than that of 99% of everyone elses..
It is almost as though, since everyone else is always trying to put on their respective show to the world that if you don’t, you’re afraid you won’t stand out; you’ll be bland and boring. When you’re not trying to impress the world with your made up personality, you’re just that regular Joe that you or anyone else will see as unique.
That mindset couldn’t be farther from the truth! In fact, when you change your fundamental persona to suit your environment, you not only hurt yourself with a lie, but you lie to everyone you put this on for. It may be your friends, it may be your family or both.
So what would happen if you didn’t put on your plastic face everyday? Wouldn’t you be letting everyone down who depends on that persona to entertain them, to make their existence better? Wouldn’t you be lying again by being you because you’ve always been lying?
This could not only ruin your social life, but possibly get you fired because your boss may expect that outgoing salesperson he first hired. All of a sudden, you want to be you instead of the fantasy that’s magnetic, appealing and irresistible.
I say change to be the real you, even if it does a lot of damage. But what if you don’t know who the real you is because you’re so stuck in this vacuum that breeds and feeds fake? Then you need to do some serious "soul searching”.
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it w
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Adolescents are always trying to one up each other in order to cement themselves into an ever-changing social structure. You may see it at the mall when a pack of thirteen year old girls float through an area you are shopping and their volume is much more accentuated than that of 99% of everyone elses..
It is almost as though, since everyone else is always trying to put on their respective show to the world that if you don’t, you’re afraid you won’t stand out; you’ll be bland and boring. When you’re not trying to impress the world with your made up personality, you’re just that regular Joe that you or anyone else will see as unique.
That mindset couldn’t be farther from the truth! In fact, when you change your fundamental persona to suit your environment, you not only hurt yourself with a lie, but you lie to everyone you put this on for. It may be your friends, it may be your family or both.
So what would happen if you didn’t put on your plastic face everyday? Wouldn’t you be letting everyone down who depends on that persona to entertain them, to make their existence better? Wouldn’t you be lying again by being you because you’ve always been lying?
This could not only ruin your social life, but possibly get you fired because your boss may expect that outgoing salesperson he first hired. All of a sudden, you want to be you instead of the fantasy that’s magnetic, appealing and irresistible.
I say change to be the real you, even if it does a lot of damage. But what if you don’t know who the real you is because you’re so stuck in this vacuum that breeds and feeds fake? Then you need to do some serious "soul searching”.
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it
It's a bright and shining new year, and you've got a clean slate. What will you do with this opportunity?Here are some ways to ensure your business success this year:1. Keep your business moving forwardIf you haven't set your goals for 2006, decide what you want NOW. Take out a notebook, put today's date on the top of the page and write out your business goals.While you're at it, you may as well create some goals for self-improvement and family and relationships. To make the most of
That mindset couldn’t be farther from the truth! In fact, when you change your fundamental persona to suit your environment, you not only hurt yourself with a lie, but you lie to everyone you put this on for. It may be your friends, it may be your family or both.
So what would happen if you didn’t put on your plastic face everyday? Wouldn’t you be letting everyone down who depends on that persona to entertain them, to make their existence better? Wouldn’t you be lying again by being you because you’ve always been lying?
This could not only ruin your social life, but possibly get you fired because your boss may expect that outgoing salesperson he first hired. All of a sudden, you want to be you instead of the fantasy that’s magnetic, appealing and irresistible.
I say change to be the real you, even if it does a lot of damage. But what if you don’t know who the real you is because you’re so stuck in this vacuum that breeds and feeds fake? Then you need to do some serious "soul searching”.
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it
A recent study by Tufts University scientists looked into the impact of diversity relative to juries. As reported by the United Press International, the study looked at decisions made by all-white juries in decisions made by a diverse jury of blacks and whites.The study looked strictly at all-white versus black-and-white juries and made no apparent attempt to involve other national or racial cultures.According to the study, diverse groups made fewer factual errors relative to the evidence in when
This could not only ruin your social life, but possibly get you fired because your boss may expect that outgoing salesperson he first hired. All of a sudden, you want to be you instead of the fantasy that’s magnetic, appealing and irresistible.
I say change to be the real you, even if it does a lot of damage. But what if you don’t know who the real you is because you’re so stuck in this vacuum that breeds and feeds fake? Then you need to do some serious "soul searching”.
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it
It is an American dream to own a business. But sadly, according to the U.S. Department of Commerce, only 1 in 5 businesses is still in business 5 years after it opens.A business needs a great business plan, but it doesn’t give management enough information to have a successful, profitable business. You dramatically increase your chance of success with a game plan. According to a PriceWaterhouseCoopers survey, over half of the fastest growing firms not only have business plans, but also have separate g
Ask yourself, what means most to you? Wasting precious time being someone your not, or living your life true and clean? To me, it’s a no brainer, but to others who dislike themselves so much, this can be one of the most daunting tasks ever.
Why is it so hard?
When you’re taking on this false persona, you feel more secure because your natural persona, as you see it, is not worthy. You’ve clipped its beautiful wings and kept it in a cage so if it wanted to fly, it couldn’t, due to your own suppression.
The most painful thought imaginable is that of the time wasted. Most of the time, years can never be recouped. In addition, if change towards your natural personality is never achieved, your whole life just may be a lie.
Not only will you gain more respect from your family and peers, but more importantly, you will always respect yourself no matter where life may bring you. So make the change, and don’t waste anymore life, it’s definitely not worth it
How would this look on your headstone? He lived his life as a lie, but what a great guy.
Don’t be that person. It’s never to late to make changes, no matter how difficult change is. Because being true to yourself as who you really are instead of what you think everyone wants you to be, is absolutely the most self empowering life you could possibly lead.
Not only will you gain more respect from your family and peers, but more importantly, you will always respect yourself no matter where life may bring you. So make the change, and don’t waste anymore life, it’s definitely not worth it
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