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Hub You - Relationship Advice: What I Learned From My Clients This Week
When you are speaking in public, humor need not be knee slapping funny to be effective. Here is a mild form of humor to add to your public speaking engagements. Alliteration is the repetition of the same first sound or the same first letter in a group of words or line of poetry.You find alliteration used in advertisements and titles all the time because it tends to catch your eye and ear. One of my humorous public speaking topics is titled 'Pranks for Profit: Confessions of a Paid Practical Joker'. It has four 'p' sounds.Here is an example of
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be
Moving to a new house or office is a challenging task, especially if you are moving to another state. Moving truck rentals, if you get a good bargain, can make the whole process easier and help you cut down on the cost of moving.The cost of moving truck rentals depends on a number of factors, including is the size of the truck and the distance this truck will have to cover. Some well-established companies providing moving trucks may charge a little bit higher rent. The new players in the market might offer you a lower rate. But you must consider two im
Don't Do These Things:
1. Don't confuse withholding important feelings or thoughts with being supportive of your partner.
Yes, our partners need our support when they are starting new jobs or businesses, going through illness, or making decisions about how to relate to extended family members. And yes, we need to learn not to be overly critical or judgemental at such times.
However, being "supportive" of something we fundamentally disagree with, for months at a time, is a sure way to disrupt the emotional intimacy in the relationship.
Learn to know the difference between critical comments that need not be voiced and fundamental disagreements that a couple must work out.
2. Don't go outside the relationship to a person of opposite gender for emotional support. I have seen SO MANY people slide into affairs that began as just supportive friendships.
At the worst, a physical or emotional affair can occur, creating wounds that can last for years. At the least, you are taking the emotional energy needed inside the relationship to an outside relationship.
3. Don't assume that step-parents can be "real" parents. Occasionally, this can work, but there are far more failures than successes. The kids know who is the real parent, and your ideas of creating the ideal family may not work very well.
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be g
Do you believe in Santa Claus? How about the easter bunny? The tooth fairy?Of course not. You learned a long time ago that fairy tales are for children. Why then would you even consider for a moment the idea that something created by banks would be something for the benefit of anyone other than the very, very rich people that own them?Every pusher working the streets knows that in order to sell drugs, all he has to do is give some away, get people hooked, and then clean up.The cigarette companies know this, too. Make cigarettes look
However, being "supportive" of something we fundamentally disagree with, for months at a time, is a sure way to disrupt the emotional intimacy in the relationship.
Learn to know the difference between critical comments that need not be voiced and fundamental disagreements that a couple must work out.
2. Don't go outside the relationship to a person of opposite gender for emotional support. I have seen SO MANY people slide into affairs that began as just supportive friendships.
At the worst, a physical or emotional affair can occur, creating wounds that can last for years. At the least, you are taking the emotional energy needed inside the relationship to an outside relationship.
3. Don't assume that step-parents can be "real" parents. Occasionally, this can work, but there are far more failures than successes. The kids know who is the real parent, and your ideas of creating the ideal family may not work very well.
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be
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Learn to know the difference between critical comments that need not be voiced and fundamental disagreements that a couple must work out.
2. Don't go outside the relationship to a person of opposite gender for emotional support. I have seen SO MANY people slide into affairs that began as just supportive friendships.
At the worst, a physical or emotional affair can occur, creating wounds that can last for years. At the least, you are taking the emotional energy needed inside the relationship to an outside relationship.
3. Don't assume that step-parents can be "real" parents. Occasionally, this can work, but there are far more failures than successes. The kids know who is the real parent, and your ideas of creating the ideal family may not work very well.
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be
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At the worst, a physical or emotional affair can occur, creating wounds that can last for years. At the least, you are taking the emotional energy needed inside the relationship to an outside relationship.
3. Don't assume that step-parents can be "real" parents. Occasionally, this can work, but there are far more failures than successes. The kids know who is the real parent, and your ideas of creating the ideal family may not work very well.
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be
Are you sick and tired of dragging your sick child to daycare because you can't afford to take another day off from work? Maybe you just want to skip the long, stressful commute to work or want to be able to work on your own time around your family's schedule.Whatever your job situation may be, you’ve probably wished that your job offered flexible work schedules or the option of telecommuting. Well, if you have a 9-5 job that can be converted to a telecommuting job, you can make a case for telecommuting by creating a verbal and written proposal.<
A much better metaphor for the step-parent is that of living as "respectful room mates." The step-parent is still an adult who can be given parenting responsibilities by the biological parent, but doesn't try to initiate policy with the kids.
Once a couple gets such an understanding rolling it seems to cut down on arguments about how to raise the kids. One less thing to disagree about!
4. Don't take your spouse for granted during mid-life.
Here's a typical scenerio. A couple has been together for years. One partner is settling in, thinking that everything is normalized and decided, and is expecting many more years of the same thing.
At the same time, the other partner is approaching the whole mid-life crisis thing, feeling more uncomfortable as time goes on. A crisis of some kind brings the couple to my office and we have a lot of work to do!
5. Don't marry a person with serious personality problems and expect them to change later on.
What you see is what you get. The more entrenched the personality quirks are, the less they will change.
Don't set yourself up for failure and disappointment. Love the person as they are, or don't marry!
Here's What To DO:
1. Do consider yourselves a TEAM. The team considers the needs of the two individuals, as well as, the needs of the couple as a whole.
It is not a competition, but a well-working team that can function as a unit for the good of both persons.
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