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and I've never been married, and I don't have any children. I wasted $4000 on this trip to Malta, but I know I will not do this again. If I travel to the former USSR again to meet a woman, I will not propose meeting in a fun place like Malta, if the woman is not ready to visit the USA.

Tanya spoke good English and was of course pretty, but she did have this habit of always putting on her make-up and clothes just right to be perfect. She would re-do her make-up numerous times a day. We call this type of women high maintenance here in the USA. I also dress well and keep in shape, so I think she was attracted to that.

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Are you a fortunate person to have someone in your life who cares for you? I don't mean care in the sense it is commonly used. But who cares for you like your mother used to when you were a child? You are a grown up person now. Does that imply that you don't need anyone to take your care? Don't you need someone to ask you if you are Ok? And then to try and make you comfortable? Don't you need someone who knows what you like and then to arrange for it? Don't you need someone who will put balm on your aching legs? Who will smother you with love, when you feel lonely?Don't you want someone to just come and sit beside you and talk to you in silence? Don't you need someone who will make you cry, because you want to, but can not because you are an adult? Don't you feel that you need someone in front of whom you can cry your heart out? And be sure that someone will wipe your tears? Or because you are adult, such things are not done? Even if one feels extreme pain of any kind, one can cry either in churches or all alone in a park? We are adults. But there is a child in all of us. We are fighters, but sometimes we lose the battles. We can bear every pain, but sometimes the pain can overcome our capacity. We all need a person in our life, who can be our mother, even if we are eighty years old. Who can understand that we need care. We wish to be pampered. We want someone to take our face in l

As I promised, today we will analyze the letter from Kevin. He had an unhappy meeting and he wants us to analyze where he made a mistake. Here is his letter:

Hello Slava:

Well, unfortunately my second meeting with Tanya did not go very well. I think she might have had second thoughts about coming to America when she knew the decision time was near.

As you may remember, I met Tanya in June in Kiev and we had a nice 4 days together. I even traveled to Vinnitysa to meet her Aunt and Uncle and see where she lived. This was after we corresponded and talked for 2-3 months. I made a decision not to have sex with here on this trip, even though she sort of tested me on this while we were together in my room. Unfortunately, I found out our trip last week to Malta that she was upset that I did not want sex with her during our first meeting in June. I was trying to be a gentlemen and not a pushy American, and now I find out 3 months later that I was a fool. She also thought that she was too old for me sometimes, and that I was too thin for her? I'm 36 and she is 29, so I thought our age difference was good. I tried to reassure her, but she always seemed skeptical for some reason. I had the opportunity to meet other women from the site, but I did not. I told her this. That I wanted to only get to know her.

When I first met her in Kiev, she said that if I wanted too see another woman on that trip that it was Ok with her. I told her that I had traveled to Kiev to see only her, and that if we did not have a good connection that I would go home. She didn't bring it up after that. I wasn't sure if she had a confidence problem or was just not very interested in me. But the rest of the trip went OK.

We started planning our second meeting soon after I arrived home from the Ukraine in June. We spoke at least 3 times a week on the phone from then until our trip to Malta this past week. I tied to get her to come to the USA for a visit, but she did not want to go through the visitor visa interview process at the USA embassy in Kiev. She was afraid of it. We discussed her coming here to the USA, and I was very detailed in describing life in America to her. I made sure to be realistic about it. That she would have to learn to drive a car, etc. Of course, I was ready and willing to make all these things happen for her. I told her that Americans do work most of the time; it's not a place where people have a lot of idle time. She seemed ready and willing to come here. She wanted to have a child with me and not work, which was fine with me.

But Tanya always had this negative attitude of actually being able to come to America. She said it would take forever, if at all. I reassured her that I would do whatever was necessary to being her here as soon as possible with a Fiance Visa, hopefully within 6 months. For our Malta trip, I did have to contact the Maltese Embassy in Washington DC a few times to get her Maltese Visa approved. A single woman from the Ukraine has a hard time getting a visitor visa to go anywhere, I have found out.

I'm wondering, do you think she may have changed her mind with respect to leaving her home in the Ukraine for America? Does this happen often? From what I found out, the economic situation in the Ukraine is worse than in Russia, so I just can't understand why she would throw away this opportunity. She has only 1 brother, and she told me she was not that close to her family. I'm a good-looking guy and I've never been married, and I don't have any children. I wasted $4000 on this trip to Malta, but I know I will not do this again. If I travel to the former USSR again to meet a woman, I will not propose meeting in a fun place like Malta, if the woman is not ready to visit the USA.

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trying to be a gentlemen and not a pushy American, and now I find out 3 months later that I was a fool. She also thought that she was too old for me sometimes, and that I was too thin for her? I'm 36 and she is 29, so I thought our age difference was good. I tried to reassure her, but she always seemed skeptical for some reason. I had the opportunity to meet other women from the site, but I did not. I told her this. That I wanted to only get to know her.

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When you purchased your home, you most likely got a fixed interest rate mortgage with a 15 or 30 year term. These are the most popular mortgages in the industry. Even in the summer of 2004, when the interest-only or simple interest mortgage loans became popular, the average American stuck to the fixed rate. You see, the fixed rate offers security to conservative people, and the average American home buyer and home owner is a very conservative person.Today, it's time to ignore that conservative nature and throw out that fixed rate mortgage. If you have a home, no matter when you purchased or refinanced your mortgage, you now need to refinance your fixed interest rate mortgage to an adjustable rate mortgage.Now, before you begin to panic and start calling me all kinds of unsavory names, read on, and you'll see why an ARM is actually a cash goldmine, and you need to start panning for this gold immediately.When I was originating loans fulltime, I could barely get the word ARM out of my mouth, before the customer would say, “Oh no! I don’t want an adjustable mortgage. I’ve heard how the rates change and your payment skyrockets, and some people actually lose their homes. No, no, I don’t want my rate to change.” Of course, once I illustrated the thousands of dollars they would save in just a few years and quashed all of those myths about loan payments “blowing up,” m

planning our second meeting soon after I arrived home from the Ukraine in June. We spoke at least 3 times a week on the phone from then until our trip to Malta this past week. I tied to get her to come to the USA for a visit, but she did not want to go through the visitor visa interview process at the USA embassy in Kiev. She was afraid of it. We discussed her coming here to the USA, and I was very detailed in describing life in America to her. I made sure to be realistic about it. That she would have to learn to drive a car, etc. Of course, I was ready and willing to make all these things happen for her. I told her that Americans do work most of the time; it's not a place where people have a lot of idle time. She seemed ready and willing to come here. She wanted to have a child with me and not work, which was fine with me.

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ive attitude of actually being able to come to America. She said it would take forever, if at all. I reassured her that I would do whatever was necessary to being her here as soon as possible with a Fiance Visa, hopefully within 6 months. For our Malta trip, I did have to contact the Maltese Embassy in Washington DC a few times to get her Maltese Visa approved. A single woman from the Ukraine has a hard time getting a visitor visa to go anywhere, I have found out.

When 130,000 Troops Come Back From Iraq Will Crime Go Up?
Crime statistics have been very low for many years and some say this is due largely in part to the fact that the unemployment in the United States is so low. Other say it is perhaps due to the number of young men in the military over in Iraq right now? It could be some of both of these issues actually. Recently a couple of members of a think tank discussed this issue and one stated;Well in my thoughts on Criminal Behavior, reptilian brain, etc. It appears to me that Politicians, salesmen, entrepreneurs, police men, actors, lawyers, soldiers, athletes all have jobs which will require certain parts of that part of the human species brain. So, with crime rates I have considered when people who want to have a war or kill join the military and leave they are involved in Killing for a living basically and thus crime rates state side will go down. Had they stayed a percentage of them would have committed crimes. While wherever they go might go up if there is nothing to KILL?The other member stated; Well, yes, I have thought here much and have developed personal theories that I use in judging character. Almost to the point of noticing that many times those who are on the enforcement side of human societies are the criminal type thinkers. Or use their brains in a way, which might cause them to also be more apt by percentages to cause crimes. Indeed this would also allow them to be be

Unfortunately, Tanya, insulted me more than a few times on the Malta trip, so I left early despite her last minute apologies. She traveled back to Kiev with her travel group SMS, that I had of course paid for. It was almost like she purposely made our Malta meeting bad so that she could stop our relationship. Well, if that was her intent she did a good job of it.

Where do you think I went wrong? Kevin

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Dear Kevin,

Thank you for so long and frank letter. You ask to analyze your situation. Let’s try and understand where you went wrong, and where you did right. I think it will be helpful for all of us.

So, you: - corresponded with the girl for 2-3 months;

- decided to meet with her at her hometown;

- met her relatives;

- were a gentleman (but not a fool!);

- kept in close touch over phone after the trip;

- planned and fulfilled the second meeting soon after that, during which you talked about starting family.

ОК. All this could make a textbook “From Internet Dating to Marriage”, because you DID EVERYTHING RIGHT! Believe me, thousands of couples follow this algorithm and successfully reach the final lap getting a prize in the form of wedding rings.

The mistakes crept into details. Let’s see:

- Tanya complained that she is “too old for you”. If to exclude poor knowledge of the language, when one can’t select the right words to express his thoughts correctly, then it is obvious that the girl simply flirted with you. 36 and 29 is an ideal age difference! Probably she simply lacked attention? The fact that she wanted intimacy with you only confirms that. You shouldn’t press for sex if a woman doesn’t want it, but to learn this, you should at least have a talk about it, shouldn’t you? :)

- Second possible reason. At the age of 29 “too old” sounds ridiculous. It is so absurd that the thought suggests itself: possibly a girl was simply seeking a reason to refuse you and she told the first that came to her mind. At the same time she didn’t want to say no herself and tried to shift it on you by prompting you the idea that “she is too old for you”. But it is up to you.

The fact that she “allowed” you to meet other women also confirms that she didn’t care for you a lot. Any woman, that likes you and willing to start serious relations with you, will NEVER push you to other women. In fact at this very point you should have wished her good luck and started search for another girl who would really become the only one for you!

Lyrical digression. Kevin, you shouldn’t get upset that you will not share your life with this girl. Think that the destiny guarded you. It is clear that the girl simply wasn’t interested in you. When the couple has sincere feelings and care for each other, everything goes right and details doesn’t matter.

“ I'm wondering, do you think she may have changed her mind with respect to leaving her home in the Ukraine for America? Does this happen often? From what I found out, the economic situation in the Ukraine is worse than in Russia, so I just can't understand why she would throw away this opportunity”.

It is one of the biggest myths that wonders around the Internet. Both Russia and Ukraine don’t have stable economic situation, but still it is not the main reason why a woman seeks a husband abroad. You mustn’t think that only because you are a foreigner, she will be thankful to you through all her life! Russian and Ukrainian women first of all look for love and family happiness. They just broaden their search beyond the bounds of their country! Certainly, they feel responsibility for their life, for life of their children (probabl

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