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Hub You - Ending a Relationship
For fourteen years on and off, I have thought I was one of the world’s last two prophets that are going to come to earth and judge the world before Jesus Christ returns to earth to rule it. In the past month Jesus has told me I am not one of the two witnesses but I will know them. Whether people believe Jesus Christ is going to come from heaven and appear as a man on earth with a superior army then the US Government or not is besides the point. The book of Revelation says clearly what is going to happen in the future and the armies of the world are g
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
<Achieving real success should be the goal of any good businessman. But what is real success? I believe that it is no just money, or instant growth. In my opinion real success is composed of the following factors. Good growth, good reputation and above all peace of mind. In this short exposure I try to elaborate on five factors pertinent in achieving this real success.1. Do your homework and planningBefore starting a business you should study the background carefully. Many people ends up as losers only because they starts a business seei
Letting your partner know that you want out is the hardest part once a decision has been made to leave. The fear in facing the truth about your relationship is often what keeps you in a maze of inaction.
RECOGNIZING A BAD RELATIONSHIP: If you had a relationship satisfaction meter where would the needle point? On one side the meter indicates your level of satisfaction, compatibility, joy, happiness, focus and future-planning. On the other it registers a sense of hopelessness, anger, despair, and self-doubt. Somewhere in the middle is a feeling of acceptance, approval, things are okay, and peace. If your needle points to the red zone of despair it may be time to think about where you fit in and what you want out of the relationship. If a dead-end is ahead of you, are you willing to sacrifice your sanity and maybe even your life to stay in a bad relationship?
DECISION-MAKING: Making the decision to leave takes a lot of guts and soul-searching. The decision will not only have an impact on you and your partner, but also your family and friends. Ending a bad relationship is accepting that there are going to be major changes in your life and that you are ready to face them head-on. How do you make the decision? Take a look at the positive and negative sides of the relationship. Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the center of it. Write the word "negative" on one side and the word "positive" on the other. Now start thinking and writing. This is an exercise in looking at your relationship from your perspective, being brutally honest with yourself. You may feel guilty writing things that you have been thinking about and keeping inside for so long, but do it anyway. Remember, this exercise is for your eyes only, so take your time and try not to censor yourself. When you are done, look at the two sides. They will give you some idea of where you are and where you are headed.
BUILDING A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Now that you have examined your true feelings and thoughts about your relationship, you must begin to gather your resources. Take a look at who is on your side, who you can turn to for emotional, physical, or financial help. Finding people who share your problems or have other things in common is important to help you feel supported and not alone. Even if you have felt all alone for many years, you don't have to feel alone any longer. Join a support group. This will not only help you get out of the house, but will also help you feel like you belong to a group of people who share the same interests and goals. Call on your support group for their caring and concern when you need it the most. Offer your help to others. There is stength in numbers.
COMMUNICATING YOUR NEEDS: Let people know how you feel. Try on the words that you want to say to your partner. Look in a mirror and practice. You may be saying things that you have only thought of before. Then try them out on a friend. Practicing saying the words will help you come to terms with their true meaning. When you feel confident that you will be able to speak with your partner and tell him or her what it is that you want, then go ahead and be honest.
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
Successful companies know that their success depends on the capabilities of the people in their organizations. MLM companies are no different and that is why training is usually a priority of MLM companies. Even if there is only one particular recruit on a particular period of time, it is still essential that they understand what your company is all about.The training of the members usually start with an introduction of what the company is, the products that they sell, their marketing strategy, and how much compensation or payment you can expe
DECISION-MAKING: Making the decision to leave takes a lot of guts and soul-searching. The decision will not only have an impact on you and your partner, but also your family and friends. Ending a bad relationship is accepting that there are going to be major changes in your life and that you are ready to face them head-on. How do you make the decision? Take a look at the positive and negative sides of the relationship. Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the center of it. Write the word "negative" on one side and the word "positive" on the other. Now start thinking and writing. This is an exercise in looking at your relationship from your perspective, being brutally honest with yourself. You may feel guilty writing things that you have been thinking about and keeping inside for so long, but do it anyway. Remember, this exercise is for your eyes only, so take your time and try not to censor yourself. When you are done, look at the two sides. They will give you some idea of where you are and where you are headed.
BUILDING A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Now that you have examined your true feelings and thoughts about your relationship, you must begin to gather your resources. Take a look at who is on your side, who you can turn to for emotional, physical, or financial help. Finding people who share your problems or have other things in common is important to help you feel supported and not alone. Even if you have felt all alone for many years, you don't have to feel alone any longer. Join a support group. This will not only help you get out of the house, but will also help you feel like you belong to a group of people who share the same interests and goals. Call on your support group for their caring and concern when you need it the most. Offer your help to others. There is stength in numbers.
COMMUNICATING YOUR NEEDS: Let people know how you feel. Try on the words that you want to say to your partner. Look in a mirror and practice. You may be saying things that you have only thought of before. Then try them out on a friend. Practicing saying the words will help you come to terms with their true meaning. When you feel confident that you will be able to speak with your partner and tell him or her what it is that you want, then go ahead and be honest.
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
<Just promoted to manager?Here’s something you need to know.Whether you are now a business, non-profit or association manager, your road to success really means achieving your new managerial objectives by altering perceptions. And I refer to perceptions leading to changed behaviors among those key outside audiences of yours that most affect your new group, department, division or subsidiary. And, incidentally, key external folks whose behaviors will affect whether you will be a success in your new role as a manager.A
BUILDING A SUPPORT SYSTEM: Now that you have examined your true feelings and thoughts about your relationship, you must begin to gather your resources. Take a look at who is on your side, who you can turn to for emotional, physical, or financial help. Finding people who share your problems or have other things in common is important to help you feel supported and not alone. Even if you have felt all alone for many years, you don't have to feel alone any longer. Join a support group. This will not only help you get out of the house, but will also help you feel like you belong to a group of people who share the same interests and goals. Call on your support group for their caring and concern when you need it the most. Offer your help to others. There is stength in numbers.
COMMUNICATING YOUR NEEDS: Let people know how you feel. Try on the words that you want to say to your partner. Look in a mirror and practice. You may be saying things that you have only thought of before. Then try them out on a friend. Practicing saying the words will help you come to terms with their true meaning. When you feel confident that you will be able to speak with your partner and tell him or her what it is that you want, then go ahead and be honest.
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
<Obadiah 1:3-4; The pride of thine heart hath deceived thee, thou that dwellest in the clefts of the rock, whose habitation is high; that saith in his heart, Who shall bring me down to the ground?Though thou exalt thyself as the eagle, and though thou set thy nest among the stars, thence will I bring thee down, saith the LORD. Men think to be higher in knowledge than God. Men seek an easy way of seeing into the future and to rewrite the scriptures. The Bible Code does not exist, and the Da Vinci Code is a farce.Men wear the long robes an
COMMUNICATING YOUR NEEDS: Let people know how you feel. Try on the words that you want to say to your partner. Look in a mirror and practice. You may be saying things that you have only thought of before. Then try them out on a friend. Practicing saying the words will help you come to terms with their true meaning. When you feel confident that you will be able to speak with your partner and tell him or her what it is that you want, then go ahead and be honest.
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
<There are so many people who want to earn extra cash at home, yet there is so much misinformation out there that it is difficult to actually know what works. I know how you feel, I used to work full time for a survey firm and I never thought that I could rise above it to earn some extra cash. But then in 1996 I was given a great gift, I was laid off from my job and had to get creative in finding ways to provide for my family. I did some odd jobs and then along came the Internet. Since that time I have worked for myself and not looked back, here is wh
AFFIRMATIONS: Affirmations are bits of sentences that you create to begin to help you change your beliefs about yourself. Write down words that describe positive aspects of your personality, ie. smart, witty, beautiful, faithful, charming. Then create a sentence starting with the words "I am." Take your affirmations with you and say them often. The affirmation becomes your mantra and helps you push away all the negative beliefs that you've been carrying around. Your self-esteem will increase as your belief system improves and the world will feel like a safer place.
Hopefully, through being honest, making the right decision, building a support system, communicating your feelings, and affirming who you are, you will gain the insight, strength, and courage to make a move toward a healthier and more fulfilling life. Ending a relationship is often a painful experience, but it's also an experience that may bring you personal growth and freedom.
JJR/NY '06 ©
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