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If you need to fight with someone, what kind of response from this person is best for you?
Let's think of what it means to do battle with a "good enemy"!Personal identity theft is a huge runaway business made even easier with advances in computer technology. So far as credit cards are concerned, personal identity theft is now costing card issuer billions of dollars a year. To try and recoup some of these losses, card providers and now telling their customers that if they were in any way at fault in the theft o A Good Enemy does not avoid the confrontation, does not escape from your angry words, does not slam the door and/or rejects the whole interaction. A person who is a good enemy stays and listens to the barrage of accusations, ignores the dramatic way of message delivery, and listens instead to the hidden content (which could be frustration, a deep need for contact, or the desperation of loneliness) And then this person can say to you, honestly: Thanks for telling me this: I will try to understand your point of view as best as I can. What is the difference? A Good Enemy refuses to escalate, and listens. This kind of response does not attempt to avoid the confrontation: it intends to process it by different means. It also means to listen to the message and ignore the envelope where the message was wrapped: angry words, high voice, aggressive words, emotional positioning, and recover the meaning hidden under the noises: There is a problem, someone is upset about it, and I'd better take notice and listen. Some people are so upset by the way things are said, that they don't pay attention to what is said: in this way, the rejection of the wrapping allows them to reject content. Doing so they can ignore the whole message: the content and the style of delivery! A Good Enemy will try to repeat back to you the same content in different and respectful ways, up until you listen to yourself, own your own ideas even if it hurts, and then move to problem solving together! 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It also means to listen to the message and ignore the envelope where the message was wrapped: angry words, high voice, aggressive words, emotional positioning, and recover the meaning hidden under the noises: There is a problem, someone is upset about it, and I'd better take notice and listen. Some people are so upset by the way things are said, that they don't pay attention to what is said: in this way, the rejection of the wrapping allows them to reject content. Doing so they can ignore the whole message: the content and the style of delivery! A Good Enemy will try to repeat back to you the same content in different and respectful ways, up until you listen to yourself, own your own ideas even if it hurts, and then move to problem solving together! You c Did You Know That Your Checking Account Affects Your Credit History? s: I will try to understand your point of view as best as I can.The way you deal with your checking account can affect your credit report. 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Some people are so upset by the way things are said, that they don't pay attention to what is said: in this way, the rejection of the wrapping allows them to reject content. Doing so they can ignore the whole message: the content and the style of delivery! A Good Enemy will try to repeat back to you the same content in different and respectful ways, up until you listen to yourself, own your own ideas even if it hurts, and then move to problem solving together! You c Adverse Credit Unsecured Loan - Deputed To Eliminate Debts ejection of the wrapping allows them to reject content. Doing so they can ignore the whole message: the content and the style of delivery!In the society, there are people with adverse credit who are looking for an external finance to revamp their credit conditions. But to borrow the fund they do not have property to pledge to the lenders. All such issues have grabbed the attentions of the lending instructions, who acted instantly and come out with the solutions branded as adverse credit unsecure A Good Enemy will try to repeat back to you the same content in different and respectful ways, up until you listen to yourself, own your own ideas even if it hurts, and then move to problem solving together! You can try to apply this technique in your own relationships: Adopt a listening attitude. Take Control of yourself, and refuse to retaliate. Repeat back the main points as close as you can, from the information you just listened to.(But avoid doing it in a hurting, ironic or sarcastic manner) Then ask for time to think about the issues, and to let your feelings settle down. (But fix a deadline for the next talk). See how your partner reacts to your new and different approach, and build momentum by shifting from confrontation mode into working a solution together mode. You will never regret it. This is one of the many other techniques you can use to respond your partner’s requests or to present your side of the story without risking damaging your relationship. If you can remember that beyond the high voices, rough words and impatient demeanor there is still a strong demand for your love, then the picture gets into a different frame, and perhaps you can recover the emotional connection that you so much need.
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