r hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow peo

This article is written to remind families to let go of the past and make every effort to come together with an open heart in the present moment.

If we want to live in a world of peace we first must have peace within our families. We must be the peace and project that out in every possible way. This can be difficult if our life choices have caused us pain or grief. Sometimes it is hard to understand why things are happening the way they are and why life continually bombards us with overwhelming problems.

Instead of dealing with our own emotional pain we tend to project out and blame others. This leads us to feeling like we are victims in life instead knowing that we are all conscious creators. Everything that happens to us in life is teaching us and reminding us to respond in love rather than react in anger or revenge. Here are a few tips to assist your family in connecting from the heart.

1) Take the Time to Get to Know Each Other.

I knew a man who rarely spoke to his sister because he thought she was weird. He didn’t like the way she dressed but never made any attempt to get to know her. We only judge others in a negative way because we do not understand. It is only through the act of communication that leads to understanding. We may not know why people do the things they do but if we never take the time to learn about who they are, we are missing out on a valuable opportunity. This season take a moment, sit down with your sister, brother, mom or dad and ask them: What are they passionate about? If they had a chance to have a dream come true what would it be? Find out what makes them sad, happy or why they believe in the things they believe in. We all have something in common. There is a story in everyone just waiting to be told.

2) Let the Hurting Stop.

Certain members may have brought us pain or hurt in the past. We may feel a sense of loss, of deep separation and possibly an emptiness that is desperately waiting be filled. We tend to strike back when a person has hurt us and try to make them pay or we withdraw and hide ourselves. It can be difficult to look that person in the eye and talk to them directly. Compounding our problems adds fuel to the fire. It is here we can ask ourselves, is this how I want to live the rest of my life with my heart closed to this person or what am I afraid of? It is never too late to forgive especially ourselves for being unloving. Let the hurting stop by having the courage to approach whoever you feel you must. Take their hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow peop

e we are victims in life instead knowing that we are all conscious creators. Everything that happens to us in life is teaching us and reminding us to respond in love rather than react in anger or revenge. Here are a few tips to assist your family in connecting from the heart.

1) Take the Time to Get to Know Each Other.

I knew a man who rarely spoke to his sister because he thought she was weird. He didn’t like the way she dressed but never made any attempt to get to know her. We only judge others in a negative way because we do not understand. It is only through the act of communication that leads to understanding. We may not know why people do the things they do but if we never take the time to learn about who they are, we are missing out on a valuable opportunity. This season take a moment, sit down with your sister, brother, mom or dad and ask them: What are they passionate about? If they had a chance to have a dream come true what would it be? Find out what makes them sad, happy or why they believe in the things they believe in. We all have something in common. There is a story in everyone just waiting to be told.

2) Let the Hurting Stop.

Certain members may have brought us pain or hurt in the past. We may feel a sense of loss, of deep separation and possibly an emptiness that is desperately waiting be filled. We tend to strike back when a person has hurt us and try to make them pay or we withdraw and hide ourselves. It can be difficult to look that person in the eye and talk to them directly. Compounding our problems adds fuel to the fire. It is here we can ask ourselves, is this how I want to live the rest of my life with my heart closed to this person or what am I afraid of? It is never too late to forgive especially ourselves for being unloving. Let the hurting stop by having the courage to approach whoever you feel you must. Take their hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow peo

ng. We may not know why people do the things they do but if we never take the time to learn about who they are, we are missing out on a valuable opportunity. This season take a moment, sit down with your sister, brother, mom or dad and ask them: What are they passionate about? If they had a chance to have a dream come true what would it be? Find out what makes them sad, happy or why they believe in the things they believe in. We all have something in common. There is a story in everyone just waiting to be told.

2) Let the Hurting Stop.

Certain members may have brought us pain or hurt in the past. We may feel a sense of loss, of deep separation and possibly an emptiness that is desperately waiting be filled. We tend to strike back when a person has hurt us and try to make them pay or we withdraw and hide ourselves. It can be difficult to look that person in the eye and talk to them directly. Compounding our problems adds fuel to the fire. It is here we can ask ourselves, is this how I want to live the rest of my life with my heart closed to this person or what am I afraid of? It is never too late to forgive especially ourselves for being unloving. Let the hurting stop by having the courage to approach whoever you feel you must. Take their hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow peo

ense of loss, of deep separation and possibly an emptiness that is desperately waiting be filled. We tend to strike back when a person has hurt us and try to make them pay or we withdraw and hide ourselves. It can be difficult to look that person in the eye and talk to them directly. Compounding our problems adds fuel to the fire. It is here we can ask ourselves, is this how I want to live the rest of my life with my heart closed to this person or what am I afraid of? It is never too late to forgive especially ourselves for being unloving. Let the hurting stop by having the courage to approach whoever you feel you must. Take their hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow peo

r hand and make eye contact. As you softly look them in the eye you can say, “I forgive you as I forgive myself. I am making the choice to let go. I cannot change the past however I do have the power to make a better and happier tomorrow.”

3) Live Life with an Open Heart.

Each of us interprets reality in a different way. It doesn’t make it wrong or right, or good or bad. So let things just be and play out as they are. When we learn to accept others for who they are in the moment we open our hearts to the many different life expressions. An open heart is also a heart that can let go. We can let go and allow people to live their own life and allow them to solve their own problems without interfering. Your family is the perfect family for you to learn perfect and wonderful lessons. Only when you magnify your love do the behaviours of others change for the better.

4) Love Will Always Find the Best.

No human relationship can endure for long without a great deal of patience and making room for allowances. Make it a habit to look for the best in others especially members of your family. You will never go wrong. A lot of people look for the worst and they create a negative atmosphere all around them. This does not mean denying issues. When an issue arises, address it without blame and in a calm manner to be resolved. There is an opportunity in the middle of every difficultly. The key here is to only discuss issues when everyone is in agreement to the time. Never discuss serious matters over a family dinner. Dinner time is the best time to focus on everyone’s accomplishments. You have the power to create the best possible family experience.

5) Give the Gift of Love Today.

We may not appreciate certain personalities within our family but we must remember that everyone is learning and growing at their own pace. Love is what everybody wants. The power of love is helping others feel good about themselves. Statements such as: “You can decide for yourself who you want to be”, or “You deserve to be treated well and with respect”, or simply, “I love you” are powerful words that show you care. Families can provide the support and the compassion that allows each member to show their feelings and express their fears through open discussion. A positive family environment is about respecting choices, communicating openly and listening well. Learn to honour your family, after all, your soul chose them for a reason.

Our world will always present us with unforeseen challenges. The power to move through these challenges is when families come together in support and love. Whether you are getting together with your family over the summer or winter holidays, remember that only love has the power to heal the wounds of the past. Stay in the present, it is a gift from spirit that is why it is called the present. Enjoy your family and the many gifts they have to share.