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    Can You Believe Those Credit Card Companies?
    When the people that run credit card companies (CCCs) die, I think they are going to be in big trouble. I was watching TV and saw an interview with a credit card executive. She was asked if CCCs want to have customers carry a balance forward on their cards. She said no way, they want customers to pay off their cards. That way the companies know they get their money.What a load of crap! CCCs do everything they can to make us carry a balance from month to month. That way we have to pay all their crazy interest rates and fees. I wrote before about how they hire experts to study who is likely to carry a balance from month to month but not go bankrupt. They then market to those people.It is unlikely the people who run CCCs are just plain evil. It is likely though that they check their conscience at the door before entering work. There was a movie called “The Corporation” that showed how average and ordinarily nice people can turn into mean cutthroat people at work. Eventually they're willing to do everything and almost anything they can to make money for the corporation. They gave little or no thought to the millions of lives that are being ruined in the process.I, being a business person myself, stron
    t angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up
    The Jewish Passover Feast Process Start To Finish
    The Passover meal consists of several readings, prayers and stories which are linked to the exodus story. This collection makes up what is called the Haggadah (telling) whose contents dates back to the medieval period. All entries in the Haggadah are recited at certain stages of the Seder.The Haggadah which has been translated into the vernacular can be understood by all who partake at the feast.An example is the opening prayer which is said by the oldest boy of the family. He prays,“this is the bread of poverty which our forefathers ate in the land of Egypt. Let all who are hungry enter and eat; let all who are needy come to our Passover feast. This year we are here; next year may we be in the Land of Israel. This year we are slaves; next year we may be free men".When there was a temple, the priest had a very significant role to play at the temple during Passover, as it was the priests who ritually killed the animal for the sacrifice. When Passover festivities shifted from the temple to the home, members of the family would now take on responsibilities in the Seder. For example, the oldest boy in the family is the “master of the Seder”. It is his job (among other tasks) to sanctify the wine and open up
    I make things up. I`m standing at the kitchen sink, a soapy dish in my hand, and I`m enraged. My face is screwed up in fury. I want to hurl the dish at the window. I`ve just imagined that my husband is doing something awful that hurts me, and I`ve gone through the entire scenario of discovery, pain and rage – all in about two seconds. I catch myself and stop cold. What am I doing? Why am I doing this? I`m a Drama Queen on the loose, creating anger instead of passion, grief instead of love.

    What started me?

    I sort of remember thinking about a client, or a neighbor, or a friend who`s tolerated a sub-par relationship for way too long. I remember empathizing. Then I remember putting myself there. Then I remember holding onto the dish hard enough to crack it.

    Makes no difference. I go there because I go there. Sometimes I go there to balance the scale when things have been particularly grand in my marriage and in my work, and I just can`t tolerate so much goodness coming to me. Sometimes I go there to shake things up – as if I`ve been asleep. Sometimes I go there as a pre-emptive strike against me, to punish me for some sin I`ve committed or believed I`ve committed, or believe I will commit. I could analyze for days, years, eons, this life and the next and the next.

    Or I could right things right now one moment at a time.

    If I cannot tolerate love, I will get angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up r

    Setting Up A Newsletter
    It is a proven fact that companies that offer newsletters have more follow up sales than those who do not. As a result, setting up a newsletter is an incredibly effective tool that any business interested in making sales or increasing business should utilize. There are several pointers that will help you begin setting up a newsletter for your company.First, you will need a reason for a newsletter and a reason for potential subscribers to sign up. This can include offering a free sample, free e-book, specialized information and the like. Your newsletter can be about any number of things, it just needs to have a target market and provide the information the subscribers want and need.When you have a newsletter and are offering subscribers something for signing up, then you will have their contact information and will be able to follow up with these individuals. It has been proven that more than 70% of sales are made after the third to fifth contact, so having contact information will prove very valuable for your company.Once you have a reason to have a newsletter, you will need to begin formatting a professional newsletter to provide to your subscribers. Consequently, you will want to buy software th
    and stop cold. What am I doing? Why am I doing this? I`m a Drama Queen on the loose, creating anger instead of passion, grief instead of love.

    What started me?

    I sort of remember thinking about a client, or a neighbor, or a friend who`s tolerated a sub-par relationship for way too long. I remember empathizing. Then I remember putting myself there. Then I remember holding onto the dish hard enough to crack it.

    Makes no difference. I go there because I go there. Sometimes I go there to balance the scale when things have been particularly grand in my marriage and in my work, and I just can`t tolerate so much goodness coming to me. Sometimes I go there to shake things up – as if I`ve been asleep. Sometimes I go there as a pre-emptive strike against me, to punish me for some sin I`ve committed or believed I`ve committed, or believe I will commit. I could analyze for days, years, eons, this life and the next and the next.

    Or I could right things right now one moment at a time.

    If I cannot tolerate love, I will get angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up

    Business Foundations - Setting Strong Foundations for More Business
    Before you start making those calls and seeing more clients, you must be fully prepared to get the business. Although you may be eager to close more sales, there are several things to take care of before you’re on your way to achieving your sales goals.Imagine building your dream house. The first thing you would do is pour cement into the ground to create a solid foundation on which to rest the house. Once the foundation is in place, you’ll be ready to build a dream house that will last forever. It’s the same with growing your sales and building your client list. When you have a strong foundation in place, you’re powerfully prepared and confident to call on prospects, and go after new business.The foundation to bringing in more sales is made up of the following 4 key qualities:Acting from Integrity Taking Responsibility Keeping Promises Creating a PlanSuccessful people embody these 4 qualities consistently in their lives. Let’s take a look at each of these qualities and how it works.Acting from Integrity. When you’re a person of integrity, you value and honor the wor
    self there. Then I remember holding onto the dish hard enough to crack it.

    Makes no difference. I go there because I go there. Sometimes I go there to balance the scale when things have been particularly grand in my marriage and in my work, and I just can`t tolerate so much goodness coming to me. Sometimes I go there to shake things up – as if I`ve been asleep. Sometimes I go there as a pre-emptive strike against me, to punish me for some sin I`ve committed or believed I`ve committed, or believe I will commit. I could analyze for days, years, eons, this life and the next and the next.

    Or I could right things right now one moment at a time.

    If I cannot tolerate love, I will get angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up

    Best MLM Leads
    One of the many challenges facing your new Multi-Level Marketing business is obtaining the best MLM leads. Whether you choose to purchase the best MLM leads or develop them yourself, you need to pay close attention to the quality of those leads. There are some common characteristics of the best MLM leads that make them more suited to building your business.First, the best MLM leads have not been sold over and over. If you are purchasing your leads from a lead development company, you want fresh leads, as you will not want to contact someone that has been through the marketing process time and time again. Therefore, the best MLM leads are your own exclusive leads.Another characteristic of the best MLM leads is that they are newer leads. The benefit of obtaining your own leads is that you are contacting them in real time, meaning within 24 to 48 hours after they express interest. The companies offering the best MLM leads will usually tell you that they offer real time leads so you can get in contact with the best MLM leads while their interest is fresh. If you are looking to purchase the best MLM leads you will want to make sure you get the best for your money. When you are first trying to develop y
    I`ve been asleep. Sometimes I go there as a pre-emptive strike against me, to punish me for some sin I`ve committed or believed I`ve committed, or believe I will commit. I could analyze for days, years, eons, this life and the next and the next.

    Or I could right things right now one moment at a time.

    If I cannot tolerate love, I will get angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up

    Following Good Financial Advice Rescued a Dentist's Dream
    “I’ve dreamed of being a dentist as long as I can remember” said Denise Mills, DDS. And so she built a thriving dental practice in Scottsdale by literally “pounding the pavement”. It was hard work, but it paid off. She loved the freedom and security of owning her own business. But slowly that all changed, putting her financial future in jeopardy.Dr. Mills began noticing pain in her hands. At first she thought she’d be fine, but the pain became unbearable, and she sought help. Just to lift the dental tools caused tremendous agony. She went through many treatments but the pain increased to the point where even being touched on the hand made her want to scream. And after 2/12 years of pain the doctors said that there was nothing else they could do.Denise was stunned. She had spent almost 30 years doing what she loved, and now it was gone.She was worried… about her business.. her family…and about what she was going to do next.Fortunately Dr. Mills had followed some wise counsel and she realized that she was going to be okay. Her business overhead insurance policy has helped her to keep her business running, paying things like utilities and rent and has allowed her to hire another dent
    t angry and push it away. If I don`t have a good reason – I`ll make one up. If I cannot tolerate success, I will sabotage it with carelessness. If I don`t have a good reason, I`ll make one up. I always have a reason, an excuse, an idea. Something I was taught long ago, in this life or the last, or the lives before. There are so many ways to make up real reasons for everything. There are statistics aplenty to support any point of view I could come up with. There are charts and examples and experiences to quote for any statement I could make up about anything in this world.

    So I`ll Stop trying to figure it out. It doesn`t matter what I think. It doesn`t matter what I think about myself. It doesn`t matter who`s right or what`s right. It only matters how it feels. If I feel bad – yes, there`s a reason, a source, a belief. And who says feeling bad is bad, anyway? Who says feeling rage and making stuff up is so bad? I just know I don`t like the way it feels. So I`m going to stop this right now.

    Here`s how:

    We women process. Our feelings morph. We feel good, then we feel guilty, then we feel bad, then we feel mad, then we feel lots of things. By following those feelings around our bodies, we get to experience feeling alive. We get to experience pain, anger, joy – the whole soup of love. Can`t feel one feeling without getting close to another. It`s the way it works. We`re not all compartmentalized. We can`t only feel joy and never encounter pain. If we spend all our energy trying not to feel pain, we can`t ever get close to joy. So if we focus on pain, all we`ll ever feel is Resistance to feeling pain, which is the same as Resistance to feeling joy, which leaves us with a big, fat nothing. Feeling numb, a void, cold,

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