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    As a relationship counselor, I am constantly being asked why so many relationships fail. In the 37 years that I have worked with couples, I have discovered five major relationship killers:

    CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR

    Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories – overt control and covert control.

    Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.

    Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in an

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    red five major relationship killers:

    CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR

    Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories – overt control and covert control.

    Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.

    Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in a

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    vates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories – overt control and covert control.

    Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.

    Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in a

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    l includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.

    Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in a

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    ling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in an attempt to have control over not being attacked.

    Controlling behavior always results in resentment and emotional distance, bringing about the very rejection that it is meant to avoid.

    RESISTANCE

    Many people enter a relationship with a deep fear of being engulfed and controlled – of losing themselves. The moment they experience their partner wanting control over them, they respond with resistance – withdrawal, unconsciousness, numbness, forgetfulness, and procrastination.

    When one partner is controlling and the other is resistant – which is really an attempt to have control ove

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