they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excus“I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts.” -John Locke 1632-1704

Have you ever been in a relationship where someone keeps telling you they love and care for you, but their actions tell you a different story? Do you wonder why you feel frustrated or disappointed when you are let down over and over again? If you find yourself holding on to empty words, broken promises, or unfulfilled commitments; how do you expect to feel?

If you are in a relationship with someone who talks a good game but never delivers on what they say, when do you stop believing them? For many it takes quite a while. You constantly hold onto the hope that some day they may really mean what they say, and how wonderful would that be? Their words are music to your ears because it’s what you want to hear, but, most of the time your hopes are dashed by reality.

Typically, a talker says what you want to hear to keep you quiet. They don’t want to lose you, so they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excus

story? Do you wonder why you feel frustrated or disappointed when you are let down over and over again? If you find yourself holding on to empty words, broken promises, or unfulfilled commitments; how do you expect to feel?

If you are in a relationship with someone who talks a good game but never delivers on what they say, when do you stop believing them? For many it takes quite a while. You constantly hold onto the hope that some day they may really mean what they say, and how wonderful would that be? Their words are music to your ears because it’s what you want to hear, but, most of the time your hopes are dashed by reality.

Typically, a talker says what you want to hear to keep you quiet. They don’t want to lose you, so they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excus

lationship with someone who talks a good game but never delivers on what they say, when do you stop believing them? For many it takes quite a while. You constantly hold onto the hope that some day they may really mean what they say, and how wonderful would that be? Their words are music to your ears because it’s what you want to hear, but, most of the time your hopes are dashed by reality.

Typically, a talker says what you want to hear to keep you quiet. They don’t want to lose you, so they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excus

ul would that be? Their words are music to your ears because it’s what you want to hear, but, most of the time your hopes are dashed by reality.

Typically, a talker says what you want to hear to keep you quiet. They don’t want to lose you, so they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excus

they find the words to make everything okay and then they do whatever they want anyway. This is selfishness at its best. Unfortunately, some people are in it for themselves with little or no regard for your needs or desires. They always make excuses for their behavior. They rarely if ever take responsibility for their actions since their unfulfilled commitments are always caused by circumstances outside themselves. And, they know that your disappointment will wane with the hopeful promise that next time, they’ll do this right.

Well intentioned words are different from blatant hyperbole. It gets to the point that you know when the words are coming out of their mouth that there is no meaning behind them. Oh, sure they may love you, in their own way, but is this how you want to be loved? Unless you are mutually giving and receiving; you are in a one-sided relationship. On the one side, not only are your needs not being met; you are constantly being made to feel that you don’t matter. And on the other side, they continue on their merry way because they know they can say anything and you aren’t going anywhere.

So, if you find yourself in a relationship and your partner’s words aren’t congruous to their actions,